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Geeking Science: Period

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The thing that takes up most of humanity’s time is food – food preparation (planting, growing, harvesting, transportation, finding, shopping, preparing, cooking, eating, cleaning up). It takes a lot of effort to keep our bodies in the calories to keep them moving. Thanks to modern technology, food preparation has been concentrated to specializations like farmer, grocers, and cooks, leaving time for other things and other specializations. But outside of sleeping, food still eats up a lot of our time.

Sleeping (preparation, recovery, doing) takes up about a third of humanity’s time.

Food took nearly the entire non-sleeping time for most of humanity, except for raising the next generation, until recently.

You know what also impacts a significant amount of time for humanity? We never really talk about it. It is considered in most cultures even more taboo than defecation. In fact, I think it is hands down the most public “secret” of humanity. Period.

That’s right, menstruation.  Strung together, it takes up around 7 years of a ovulating person’s life. Let’s say an average of THREE YEARS per human on the planet – that is about 4% of everyone’s times … or close to 10% of the ovulating person’s lifespan. Thank goodness the five or so days only happens once a month.

Hey, don’t turn away. This is Geeking Science, sociology style. Did you know that Menstruation is stigmatized all over the world? (unicef.org) With about half of all females at reproductive age – ONE QUARTER OF THE ENTIRE PLANET – to have it be a “secret” is beyond stupid, it’s dangerous.

It impacts female’s ability to attend school. When access to running water, or pads, or cleaning facilities is limited, teen girls often say home. Humanity is leaking skills when education and knowledge isn’t passed on, especially to those raising the next generation.

It impacts women’s ability to maintain jobs when health care isn’t available. Lord knows, my cycle had me cramping so bad I vomited every month for decades. Until I figured out just how to get the sugar levels AND the pain levels under control for the first three days, my natural cycle devastated my ability to function on the job. I didn’t have much in sick leave outside of managing my period. I can’t imagine what it would have been like without access running water, easy food, pain killers, and a job that allowed sick leave.

It impacts political decisions, dangerously so, when those making the decision are working without all the facts they need because of stigma and nearly willful ignorance.

We need to break the barriers of shame and misunderstanding.

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UNICEF issued Nine Key Facts on Menstruation because:

“At UNICEF, we envision a world where every girl can learn, play, and safeguard her own health without experiencing stress, shame, or unnecessary barriers to information or supplies during menstruation,” said Sanjay Wijesekera UNICEF Chief of Water, Sanitation and Hygiene. “Meeting the hygiene needs of all adolescent girls is a fundamental issue of human rights, dignity, and public health.”

(One) TIME – On average a woman menstruates for about 7 years during their lifetime

(Two) EMOTIONS and EMOTIONAL SUPPORT – The first period can be met with either celebration, fear or concern. For every girl, this signifies an important transition to womanhood – a time when they would benefit from the support of family and friends.

(Three) UNDERSTANDING – Many girls do not have complete and accurate understanding of menstruation as a normal biological process. Educating girls before their first period — and, importantly, boys — on menstruation, builds their confidence, contributes to social solidarity and encourages healthy habits. Such information should be provided at home and at school.

(Four) HEALTH – Poor menstrual hygiene can pose physical health risks and has been linked to reproductive and urinary tract infections. Many girls and women have limited options for affordable menstrual materials. Providing access to private facilities with water and safer low-cost menstrual materials could reduce urogenital diseases.

(Five) SPECIAL NEEDS – Girls and women with disabilities and special needs face additional challenges with menstrual hygiene and are affected disproportionately with lack of access to toilets with water and materials to manage their period.

(Six) EMERGENCIES – Many women and girls do not have access to materials to manage their menstruation, especially in times of emergency — natural disasters and conflicts. In emergencies, UNICEF provides dignity kits to women and girls, which include sanitary pads, a flashlight and whistle for personal safety when using the toilet.

(Seven) SANITATION – Globally, 2.3 billion people lack basic sanitation services and in Least Developed Countries only 27 per cent of the population has a handwashing facility with water and soap at home. Managing periods at home is a major challenge for women and adolescent girls who lack these basic facilities at home.

(Eight) EDUCATION – About half of the schools in low-income countries lack adequate drinking water, sanitation and hygiene crucial for girls and female teachers to manage their period. Inadequate facilities can affect girls’ experience at school, causing them to miss school during their period. All schools should provide running water, safe and clean toilets for adolescent girls. (And like many things specifically created to benefit one group of people, benefits all – Running water is necessary to the general health and safety of all students and teachers.)

(Nine) TABOOS – UNICEF is working with local communities, schools and governments to research and provide information about menstruation, promote positive hygiene habits and break down taboos. UNICEF also provides adequate facilities and supplies, including toilets, soap, and water to schools in some of the poorest regions.

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Can you imagine living in a culture without heat, but because of taboos, you have to sleep alone while menstruating? The cramping can affect the body’s ability to control heat, making both the cold and cramping even worse.

I’m glad UNICEF is making it a priority to provide “dignity kits” during emergencies. Displaced women do not need to worry about the mess while escaping wildfires, earthquakes, and mudslides. Cleaning and disposal of the blood-rich sanitary protection materials is essential to reduce infections and disease, especially in situations such as natural emergencies. And knowledge of how long one can use a pad or tampon is necessary to avoid toxic shock syndrome (Cleveland Clinic), both in young girls, and those taking care of injured women during an evacuation needs to be shared far and wide.

With a quarter of humanity experiencing “the cycle”, education, materials, and sanitation measures are necessary. It’s not a “special” or “secret” thing. It’s a biological fact as much as sleeping and eating.

Bibliography

Cleveland Clinic – health essentials. “What Happens if You Leave a Tampon in Too Long?” 9 September 2022. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-happens-if-you-leave-a-tampon-in-too-long/ – last viewed 8 November 2023.

House, Sarah, Therese Mahon and Sue Cavill. “Menstrual hygiene matters: A resource for improving menstrual hygiene around the world.” – last viewed 8 November 2023 (this is a 354-page PDF.) (Note: PDF seems to be down as of 4/28/2024)

natracare. “15 Period questions teenage boys want answered.” https://www.natracare.com/blog/15-period-questions-teenage-boys-have/ – last viewed 8 November 2023.

UNICEF.org. “FAST FACTS: Nine things you didn’t know about menstruation.” 25 May 2018. – last viewed 8 November 2023.

 

Editing Rant: Down vs. Out

One common piece of advice I have given often is:
Get the WORDS on the PAGE. You can’t edit it if it hasn’t been written.
I’ve even passed on advice given by other authors along this line.
That being said, DON’T PUBLISH the first draft.
The first draft is just that – one pass. Nothing polished.
A writer needs to work things over, tumble the stone until rough edges are knocked off and the colors shine through.
One of my author friends reports that a current piece of advice is “better to push out a poorly edited book than have nothing at all.”
Really, WHAT?
The concept is to have something out there for people to read, to stumble across. Content, content, content. That is how people find you and get to know you.
Except the content sucks. People associate you with the suckage. Not.a.good.thing.
Also, this not only harms your reputation as a creative, it harms the greater community as people start expecting badly written books. Things out there just to make money.
Publishing just to publish is BAD advice.
To pull the two pieces of advice together.

DOWN BUT NOT OUT

Get things down on paper or the computer screen. You can’t fix things that haven’t been written. It’s okay to suck on the first try – you will create bad stuff. Everyone does. The object is to create something to fix.

Do NOT push out that initial writing. It’s got to be worked and edited.

Down but not out.

Flash: Honey’s Adoption

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“Aw, isn’t she the cutest.” I hunch down beside the black cat. “Look someone has put her in a costume.”

“Jessie, it has orange eyes.”

“I know.” I sit beside the cat, not directly in front of it so she (or he, I wouldn’t want to misgender the black beauty, but in my mind all cats are girls like my calico pair at home) could decide if we might be friends. “And believe me, if it’s owner is around we would be having a talk. But I don’t think they are contacts, they look natural.”

“Its nails are blood colored.”

“They did not!”

The cat hissed at my sudden outburst.

“So sorry honey,” I say looking down at the cat, “but did your owners paint your needles of death? If they did, that is so rude. Could I see, please?” I hold out my hand carefully, waiting.

Turning towards me, the cat holds out a paw, her claws extended.

They are indeed red, but it appears the keratin is naturally that color. I take the foot and press the toe beans to extend the claws further. “All good.” I whisper, assuring her and myself, letting go of her foot. “Gill, they are fine, she just has some unusual coloring.” The cat stands up and saunters over to me, standing on her back legs and raising her small body so her front claws prick at my jeans.

I hold my breath, and Gill, bless his overcautious body, takes a step back. She pushes off and lands in my lap, the wings opening and closing with the movement. Turning around in a circle in my crossed legs, she presents me with her long black tail with a swish across my face, an extra smack against my nose, and an unmistakable view confirming she is female, before settling down. I start scritching her behind the neck and she arches into it.

“Where…” Gill coughs. “How are those wings attached?”

I dig into the fur, looking for strings or some sort of wire frame, maybe a leash support. The wings look leather with very short fur over them, almost a felt, thick along the lead edges mimicking bones; whoever made the costume did an amazing job. “Not sure,” I answer, “I can’t find anything.” I frown. “Not even a collar.” I run a hand down the body. “Oh, honey, do you need a place to live?”

“No, absolutely not.”

“No?” I raise my eyebrow at my live-in fiancée.

“No, we do not need another cat.”

“We can’t take her to a shelter, not this close to Halloween. All kinds of kooks grab up black cats this time of year.”

“No. She is a demon cat, look at her.”

“Darling, they are all demon cats.” I lean closer as I continue to pet her. “Isn’t that right honey? Do you have a name? Would you mind if I call you Honey for those beautiful eyes of yours until we figure it out?”

Gill sits on a discarded can in the alleyway. “No, please do not name the demon cat.” He covered his face with his hands. “We will have to take it home, then keep it separated from the others for two weeks, then all the new vet bills, explaining why the fuck Honey has wings.”

“So you think Honey is a good name?” I ask happily. Honey’s body is doing a deep, nearly silent purr against my hand. “She likes it.”

“Right,” Gill sits up straight. “Honey,” he says to the cat and she lifts her head to look at him. “Oh, this is going to be a fucking disaster,” he mutters, before continuing in his I’m-in-control voice I enjoy so much in the bedroom. “Do you want to be adopted?” he pauses and her head tilts sideways. “By us. We have two cats, normal ones … well they are both whack jobs and Patches ain’t too smart.”

“An understatement,” I whisper to Honey, “but I love her for it.”

“Queen Bee is gonna to do the territory thing. But she is lazy about it and will wear down. But,” Gill held up a finger and I felt Honey tense under my hands, “Jessie and I are engaged. We plan on getting married next June after I finish college and we will be having two children.”

“Four,” I whisper really soft to the potential adoptee, Gill was an only child didn’t know just how big his heart could grow. I felt Honey relax back into the pets. A full house doesn’t seem to be a problem.

“You must treat these kids well. No harm to our children, to our present fur babies, any future fur babies because Jessie collects them as you can see, or to us.” Gill dropped his hand to his knee. “If you came to live with us, you are welcome, and we will protect you as one of our own, but we expect the same courtesy.”

Honey looks back and forth between us, takes a gentle swipe at my hand, and then leaps out of my lap. Those gorgeous wings do a quick spread for the perfect landing then pulling against her body. Whoever made them did an incredible job. She walks away, her tail swishing.

“Oh, oh well,” I say, disappointed. “I guess, as clean and neat as she is, she already has an owner.”

At the entry of the alleyway she meows in annoyance, turning her orange eyes at us. The sunlight streaming in from the street made them look like they were glowing.

“Oh, wait, she wants us to follow!” I jump up and go to where Honey is sitting, waiting for us, her wings completely blending into her fur.

Gill reluctantly follows. “No, I think she is waiting for us. God help us.”

Honey hisses at Gill.

“Sorry, no G word. Got it.” He shrugs. “We don’t use it much.” My patient, forgiving boyfriend pauses in the twilight between the noon sun on the street and the midnight dark of the alleyway. “Blessed be better?”

Honey stands, flicking her tail high before walking over and rubbing his legs.

(words 1022; first published 11/20/2023)

Book Review: The House in the Cerulean Sea

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The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune

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Linus Baker is a by-the-book case worker in the Department in Charge of Magical Youth. He’s tasked with determining whether six dangerous magical children are likely to bring about the end of the world.

Arthur Parnassus is the master of the orphanage. He would do anything to keep the children safe, even if it means the world will burn. And his secrets will come to light.

The House in the Cerulean Sea is an enchanting love story, masterfully told, about the profound experience of discovering an unlikely family in an unexpected place—and realizing that family is yours.

 

MY REVIEW

Luis investigates children homes for the Department in Charge of Magical Youth, making sure the homes are keeping the children safe from the world … and the world safe from the children. He is more interested in the former, under his by-the-book exterior, though his bosses are more interested in the later. They had a special case needing observation and picked him out of their gray, cubicle-controlled world. Their mistake was focusing on his exterior rule-following instead of understanding where his heart lay.

The book brings the amorphous time of Harry Potter – the mix of not-really modern and magic. Lots of no-longer existing technology used in the book and available both to the normals and the magical-youth. The focus of the book is acceptance of those different from you, whether by race, sexuality, age, or religion. Everyone should have a chance to grow up and become themselves.

It’s fun, with lots of odd-ball characters, skirting the edge of being heavy handed to those who pay attention to the subcontext of books. But it is easy to just play along with the story. A good read.